Studying Abroad in Japan
This is my first time abroad, and I have been living as an international student for about two years. Living alone was lonely, but I have experienced various events and new things. Time really flies.
My graduation ceremony is coming soon. My current feelings are a mix of happiness and sadness. When I decided to study in Japan, my parents were very worried. Of course, I wanted to improve my Japanese and study Japanese culture. Although I studied Japanese in Vietnam, I rarely had the chance to speak directly with Japanese people. There were problems in understanding how and when to use certain phrases, leading to frequent mistakes. However, since studying directly in Japan, I have become able to speak and express my opinions.
But is this all there is to studying abroad? To me, studying in Japan has various meanings. One interesting thing I found in Japan is the importance of greetings. Regardless of age, Japanese people always greet properly everywhere and at all times.
Japanese people also consider others, not just themselves. Japan’s strict garbage disposal manners keep the country clean. Even cheaper products, like those found in 100-yen shops, are of good quality.
Japanese people wear masks properly when they are sick, probably thinking that they don’t want others to suffer like them.
When I first arrived in Japan, I wanted to return to my parents immediately because of language barriers and different customs. But remembering my parents’ expectations and my own aspirations, I decided to persevere. Before coming to Japan, I couldn’t make decisions on my own and always relied on my parents. I didn’t do much housework at home and could only cook simple dishes. At 20, I was only thinking about taking it easy. But now, I can do everything by myself, as I live alone.
What I love about Japan is that I can both study and work. I came to Japan for my future, so I’m determined to achieve the future I desire.
However, I always feel that I am weaker than those around me. Therefore, I am constantly striving to improve. It was difficult to work and live in Japan, but I am very fortunate to have worked with a kind boss. Even when I made delivery mistakes, my boss did not scold me. Instead, he asked if I had any problems and offered help. When I contracted COVID-19, he encouraged me daily, asking about my fever, if I wanted anything to eat, and to stay strong. On my birthday and when I passed an exam, he bought me a cake and treated me to a delicious meal. I am very grateful.
Even after graduation, the teachers of Kobe Sumiyoshi International Japanese Language School will always be in my heart. Thank you for thinking of me until the end and teaching me various things. Thank you for introducing me to the vocational school.
Although we international students live far from our families, the saying “a close neighbor is better than a distant relative” holds true, as I have received various help from those nearby. My time in Japan had both good and tough moments, but it was truly enjoyable. Thanks to everyone, I was able to grow. Thank you very much.