My dear Darling,

Hey, Darling. Where are you now? Are you doing well? When I meet you, I plan to say, “I’ve been searching for you for a long time, waiting and getting angry.” No matter where you are, I will surely find you.

I read in a book that “you might sometimes pass by your destined person without realizing it.” So, I wonder if I have ever met you or passed by you. The thought of meeting you makes me nervous, excited, and my heart flutter.

I’m not a good person. I’m harsh on others and have many flaws. I’m weak-willed, and I often speak without thinking. I’m forgetful and stubborn. Because of my weak will, I’m not good at talking to people I meet for the first time. I often say things without considering others’ feelings, which can hurt them. Being forgetful might be due to poor memory. I often forget things. People say I’m stubborn. So, I’m not popular.

I can’t help but cross my arms and ponder what kind of person you are. What’s your personality like? Do you have any quirks? Regardless, let’s hold each other’s hands, believe in each other, and love each other. I want to experience both joy and difficulties together.

I’ve already planned our life after marriage. At first, let’s both work and save money. Of course, you’ll help with household chores, right? I’m clumsy, so I’ll prepare meals. I’ll ask you to clean up. If I do the laundry, please hang it to dry. Let’s work together on household chores and our jobs.

Then, when we’ve saved enough, I want to have children. I love kids. How about you? I’ll probably worry a lot when the children are small, wondering if they’ll get sick or grow up properly. But as they grow older, worries about exams and jobs will never end. Even with the hardships, I think raising children is fun. So, please enjoy the busy days of parenting and housework with me.

In our married life, we might sometimes fight. Getting married can suddenly take away one’s personal freedom. I think everyone feels stressed when they can’t wake up or eat at their preferred times. When we have children, even our holidays might not be free, and we might envy single people a little. It’s difficult to express dissatisfaction to the other person at such times.

But if you’re ever dissatisfied, please talk to me. If I’m unhappy with you, I’ll try to be honest about it. To have a harmonious marriage, let’s be careful about how we point out each other’s flaws. Let’s build a happy home together.

I’m really looking forward to meeting you. Please wait for me.

From your Huyen.